Mu buzima bw’urukundo n’imibanire hari amabanga yihariye abagore badakunda ko amenyekana. Dore amabanga 20 y’abagore/abakobwa batifuza ko umugabo/umusore wese amenya:
1. Kubika amabanga
Nubwo abagore bashobora kubika amabanga, akenshi hari undi muntu bayasangiza cyane cyane umuntu babonamo icyizere. Mu magambo make ntibashobora kubika ibanga.
2. Urukundo
Umugore/umukobwa ntiyashobora gukunda abagabo babiri icyarimwe. Hari umwe gusa aba akunda cyane abandi aba ari kubabeshya ku bw’inyungu abashakaho.
3. Irari ry’imibonano mpuzabitsina
Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko Umugore/umukobwa bafite irari rikubye inshuro nyinshi iry’abagabo nubwo akenshi batabigaragaza.
4. Kwanga guseba
Umugore/umukobwa banga guseba cyangwa guhura n’ikibazo gishobora kubatesha agaciro. Bamenya gushaka abantu babafasha mu bihe bikomeye.
5. Uwambuye ubusugi
Umugore ntashobora kwibagirwa umugabo/umusore wa mbere bakoranye imibonano mpuzabitsina. Iyo haje kubaho kwibuka, icyo gihe niwe uza ku isonga.
6. Gukina n’amarangamutima
Kurira cyangwa kugaragaza isoni ntibivuze ko umugore ari inyangamugayo. Ashobora kubyigana neza kugira ngo abone icyo ashaka.
7. Uko yitwara mu gihe yaciwe inyuma
Iyo umugabo/umusore amuciye inyuma, umugore/umukobwa ntahita yanga umugabo we ahubwo akenshi ntibimworohera kwihanganira uwo mugore wamutwaye umugabo.
8. Gufata icyemezo mu buriri
Umugore/umukobwa baha agaciro uko umugabo/umusore yitwaye mu buriri. Ibi bishobora kugira uruhare mu kugumana umubano cyangwa kuwusenya.
9. Kubaho nk’umwamikazi
Umugore ahora yifuza kuba umwamikazi mu buzima bwe kandi agashakisha umugabo ushobora kumufasha kugera kuri ibyo byifuzo.
10. Urukundo ruruta byose
Umugore ashobora gutandukana n’uwo akunda ariko ntabwo yava ku mugabo yubaha kandi amufata nk’umuyobozi.
11. Icyubahiro n’imyitwarire
Nubwo abagore batishimira ko umugabo agira izindi nshuti z’abakobwa bishimira ko uwo mugabo aba akurura abandi bagore cyangwa abakobwa.
12. Kwiyemera mu bwisanzure
Umugore akunda umuntu umukunda kandi akamuha ubwisanzure. Ntashaka ko urukundo ruba nka gereza ahubwo ashaka ko ruba ubwigenge kandi rufite intego.
13. Ubwenge bwo gusoma amarangamutima
Abagore bakunda kumenya icyo abagabo bifuza ariko bakigaragaza nk’abatabizi kugira ngo bigaragaze mu buryo bujyanye n’umutekano wabo.
14. Uko bagaragara
Abagore baha agaciro cyane uko abandi bababona kandi baharanira guhesha agaciro izina ryabo.
15. Impinduka mu buzima
Ntibakunda ubuzima budahinduka. Bashaka impinduka kandi bagakunda umuntu ugerageza guhanga udushya.
16. Urubyaro rufite intego
Abagore banga abagabo batifuza kubyara. Ku rundi ruhande, bagira ubushishozi mu guhitamo umugabo uboneye mu rubyaro rwabo.
17. Kwiyerekana neza
Abagore bahora bashaka kugaragara neza mu maso y’abandi kandi ibi bibafasha mu kwiyubakira icyizere.
18. Gutanga umwanya mu mibanire
Iyo umugabo yitwara neza mu mibanire umugore ashobora kumukundira umwihariko we wihariye mu gukunda.
19. Ubwenge mu mubano
Kwandikirana neza n’umugore bigira uruhare runini mu kumukurura no gutuma akugirira icyizere.
20. Gukunda umuntu uteye imbere
Umugore mwiza ahora ashaka umugabo ushoboye wiyubaka buri munsi kandi ushobora gutuma agera ku nzozi ze.
